Okay, I'm baaackkkkk. Here's the deal: After almost 5 years, broke up with the live=in boyfriend, moved out and have my own place. Wow, am I happy. All the people who said I was too quick to get with other people were spot on--the post-divorce time was much too focused on dating, feeling attractive, and being part of a couple and/or experimenting. Very okay, but...my new plan is to be a great partner to--MYSELF.
I am so thrilled to no longer be in a relationship where the guy actually wanted a mom to take care of him and someone to cover his bills etc. The slide as to how I got there is another story, one I will probably write, but geezes, what was I thinking?
Like Snow White (but no virgin) I have awakened from my sleep and discovered the handsome prince is--me!
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