So I am seeing both John and Wash, and it's difficult. On one hand, I love John and see a potential future; on the other, Wash is my buddy, my play pal and best friend.
As it turns out, Wash is having an easier time sharing, though I am spending most of my free time with John. And John is having a hard with my spending any time with Wash at all--even though he identified as poly when we met (obviously, poly is a meaningless term when it describes what people's partners are allowed to do, though every man who says he is poly can sleep with as many women as he wants).
So, not clear where John will end up--I don't want someone so possessive, or so needy, that I have to be 24/7 woman--and I hate the way John seems to emotionally withdraw and become distant when things don't go his way.
More TBD on this one.
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