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scarlett

If you're being honest with each other about seeing other people, that's good. But the truth is, you both need to be honest with the others in your life about seeing other people too. If he's not telling his wife, he's leaving her out of the picture, affecting her life without letting her know she has choices too. And she may not want to be with someone who can't remain faithful, however he is not allowing her that choice by keeping it from her. I would hope that you would both show the people in your lives the honesty you are showing each other.

scarlett

If you're being honest with each other about seeing other people, that's good. But the truth is, you both need to be honest with the others in your life about seeing other people too. If he's not telling his wife, he's leaving her out of the picture, affecting her life without letting her know she has choices too. And she may not want to be with someone who can't remain faithful, however he is not allowing her that choice by keeping it from her. I would hope that you would both show the people in your lives the honesty you are showing each other.

scarlett

If you're being honest with each other about seeing other people, that's good. But the truth is, you both need to be honest with the others in your life about seeing other people too. If he's not telling his wife, he's leaving her out of the picture, affecting her life without letting her know she has choices too. And she may not want to be with someone who can't remain faithful, however he is not allowing her that choice by keeping it from her. I would hope that you would both show the people in your lives the honesty you are showing each other.

scarlett

If you're being honest with each other about seeing other people, that's good. But the truth is, you both need to be honest with the others in your life about seeing other people too. If he's not telling his wife, he's leaving her out of the picture, affecting her life without letting her know she has choices too. And she may not want to be with someone who can't remain faithful, however he is not allowing her that choice by keeping it from her. I would hope that you would both show the people in your lives the honesty you are showing each other.

suzannah

scarlett--good points.

geri

We sometimes forget about being honest to our partners when something massive is on the line - like your personal happiness. Having another partner is proof that you seek something more than what you and your other partner are sharing. If honesty became more important than finding real happiness (through your relationships), then there wouldn't be happy people. These "happy" people took great chances to find happiness in the form of compatible partners.

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