Husband is having an affair!
Not sure when it started, but it's ongoing now--and they're in love.
Woman is someone he knows from work, formerly single.
They're in love.
I found out because when he went up to the new place today, he left his computer here with his email on the screen--and I saw--and read--messages between them. I'd had a feeling that he might go out with her at some point--but when he told me--two days ago--that there was no one else, etc.
the man was LYING.
They have been together for at least a month, if not longer--and they could go back to February (when we stopped having sex cause he said it was confusing, perhaps?)
In some ways this makes the breakup much easier.
The idea that he is weak enough to avoid telling me he'd met someone else means we shouldn't be together anyway--and also suggests he's a major faker, a liar.
On the other hand, it makes me wonder what else he has lied about over the years that trusting old me has accepted.
After all, this is the man who SWORE there was no one else, he'd always been faithful, etc.
Yeah, RIGHT.
Of course, I am completly amazed. It explains so much why there's been no settling up, no discussion of our past--he's moved on big time already, I just didn't know it.
He's not a guy who wanted to be alone--he's a guy who wanted to be with someone else--someone he lined up before he exited our marriage.
Yow.
How bitter is that taste.
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