I haven't posted here for almost a year; no time. But I'd like to share where my story has gone to date, in appreciation of everyone who has followed this blog, and new people who come to it because they have gotten divorced and are hurting and learning.
Here's the short version: Life is good. Nah, life is GREAT.
I have been seeing one special man for almost two years (Colin, here) and we moved in together and are living happily. We are not monogamous, but we're a dedicated couple who put one another first, and who are thoughtful and careful about how we engage with others.
Most importantly, I continue to try to grow as a person and address my baggage and issues. My son is well, my ex is remarried and seems very much the same as he was, but with a new wife (we rarely talk, but I wish him well; we all should get exactly the life we wish for). I am still cordial with most of my exes, and am spending alot more time with myself, in my own space than I did before.
Peace to all.
Hello there,
About 3 years ago, or so...I was going through a horrible seperation and divorce.
I found your blog and read with a burning need for anwers.
I wanted to let you know that you helped me more than know!
I am now in a wonderful marriage to an old friend. Our relationship is such a blessing!!
The people that follow you, if anything like me, are hurting and looking for guidance of any sort. I would like to let them know that happiness is out there when you least expect it! To remain hopeful. and to follow the road to wherever it may lead.
I am glad to find your blog again, very pleased to see you are happy!!
Lori
Posted by: Lori Jones | June 16, 2009 at 12:42 PM
Apparently, she doesn't check in with her blog very often. That's too bad, because she had a nice following.
Posted by: Lori | September 19, 2009 at 06:33 PM